mjmooney Posted March 26, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted March 26, 2018 2 hours ago, Dick said: Anybody ever fallen for their best friend? There is something going happening, she has said stuff, me too. It feels odd though. We know way too much about each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 26, 2018 Share Posted March 26, 2018 3 hours ago, chrisp65 said: To be clear, are we talking about your mum? It's a difficult situation. Any suggestions? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post blandy Posted March 26, 2018 Moderator Popular Post Share Posted March 26, 2018 3 hours ago, Demitri_C said: I got with a friend that was a girl once Um, well, it takes all sorts, I guess 2 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted March 26, 2018 Share Posted March 26, 2018 Paging Morpheus ......... 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choffer Posted March 26, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted March 26, 2018 9 hours ago, Dick said: Anybody ever fallen for their best friend? There is something going happening, she has said stuff, me too. It feels odd though. We know way too much about each other. Yes and it's great. You basically bypass that whole first 6 months of getting to know each other and worrying that you'll find out something you don't like or she does. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jon Posted March 26, 2018 Share Posted March 26, 2018 (edited) 7 hours ago, blandy said: Um, well, it takes all sorts, I guess Demmers really is the gift that keeps on giving Edited March 26, 2018 by Jon 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted March 26, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted March 26, 2018 Love is like a fart: If you gotta force it, it's probably shit. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted March 29, 2018 Share Posted March 29, 2018 Going through a really dry spell at the moment, and the longer it goes on the less confidence I have so it goes on even longer. Internet swiping seems to bring back very little (yes I know it means I’m an ugly c but hey). Been on a couple of dates but nothing of interest. Mates don’t help as they are useless, even the ones with gfs dont Have much game. Thinking of trying a different approach, speed dating or maybe one of those meet up things.. anyone done any? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark Albrighton Posted March 29, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted March 29, 2018 10 minutes ago, mikeyp102 said: Going through a really dry spell at the moment, and the longer it goes on the less confidence I have so it goes on even longer. Internet swiping seems to bring back very little (yes I know it means I’m an ugly c but hey). Been on a couple of dates but nothing of interest. Mates don’t help as they are useless, even the ones with gfs dont Have much game. Thinking of trying a different approach, speed dating or maybe one of those meet up things.. anyone done any? Yep, I tried speed dating once, I’d recommend it. I mean it got me nowhere, but it’s a good experience and it could help build your confidence back up. It was held in all bar one in Brum. I was surprised at the number of seemingly nice women there. The website was terribly put together though. Compared to the few depressing days I spent on POF a few years ago, it’s a very positive experience. If you’ve got a single friend who would be prepared to go too, that would be even better. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post El Zen Posted March 29, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted March 29, 2018 20 minutes ago, Shropshire Lad said: Compared to the few depressing days I spent on POF a few years ago, it’s a very positive experience. I read that as BOF... 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted March 29, 2018 Share Posted March 29, 2018 3 hours ago, Shropshire Lad said: If you’ve got a single friend who would be prepared to go too, that would be even better. That’s why I’ve put it off, my single mates are worse than me. Most I’ve never even seen talk to a woman outside of other mates gfs and some just get too drunk (we’re in our thirties so it’s not like they are kids) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted May 11, 2018 Share Posted May 11, 2018 Ayup mates. So, who's had the snip? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theboyangel Posted May 11, 2018 Share Posted May 11, 2018 29 minutes ago, Dante_Lockhart said: Ayup mates. So, who's had the snip? Yup - no bother whatsoever, just a day of mild discomfort. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted May 11, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted May 11, 2018 4 minutes ago, theboyangel said: Yup - no bother whatsoever, just a day of mild discomfort. Same here. Trivial, but eminently sensible. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Designer1 Posted May 11, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted May 11, 2018 45 minutes ago, Dante_Lockhart said: Ayup mates. So, who's had the snip? Yep. Unfortunately I was one of the unlucky buggers who didn't have the best of times due to some lacklustre medical staff and a problem with the anaesthetic. You'll be fine though, I think statistically I was in a very small minority. (Still makes me wince when I recall it though ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theboyangel Posted May 11, 2018 Share Posted May 11, 2018 My mate thought it’d be a good idea to nip to the post office straight afterwards only to faint in the queue!! It was talk of the village for at least a month! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted May 11, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted May 11, 2018 17 minutes ago, theboyangel said: My mate thought it’d be a good idea to nip to the post office straight afterwards only to faint in the queue!! It was talk of the village for at least a month! I took the afternoon off, mainly because I had mine done under a general, rather than local, anaesthetic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted May 11, 2018 Share Posted May 11, 2018 Yep, I've been done too. Couple of valium, nurse asked me if they'd had any effect, I said no. She said fine, strip off and we'll start. I stripped off and they did the op. Chatted shit to them whilst they cut, pulled, tied 'em off and closed me back up. In hindsight, I think she knew they had kicked in. Absolutely no problems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tegis Posted May 11, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted May 11, 2018 Wait, what, hoooold it You mean there's and option to be awake while your balls are being slit open??? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted May 11, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted May 11, 2018 39 minutes ago, Tegis said: Wait, what, hoooold it You mean there's and option to be awake while your balls are being slit open??? I believe the vast majority of vasectomies in the UK are done with a local anaesthetic. I'd have been quite happy to have had one, but my surgeon said he always used a general, so I just went with that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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