Xela Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 I'm in a mess. The sensible thing to do for everybody is to end my current relationship but the short term will suck. silly question but are you in love with her, or do you at least think you could be? Yeah but love doesn't come into it. I can't afford to support another person at 23. Had a big chat and basically told her that she'll need to get a job for it to work. She wants to study over here. No chance of her studying without me supporting her. You could do more overtime/weekend work. Even get a second job I think Stefan should work 4 jobs then he could support her whole family then too 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kingman Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 I'm in a mess. The sensible thing to do for everybody is to end my current relationship but the short term will suck. silly question but are you in love with her, or do you at least think you could be? Yeah but love doesn't come into it. I can't afford to support another person at 23. Had a big chat and basically told her that she'll need to get a job for it to work. She wants to study over here. No chance of her studying without me supporting her. You could do more overtime/weekend work. Even get a second job I think Stefan should work 4 jobs then he could support her whole family then too He would if he loved her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 He's just being selfish! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 beginning to look like our only export to Poland was some sort of sex con man this could turn diplomatic and people wonder why we can't win Eurovision? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kingman Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 They warned her that he was a Bastard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 i must admit i always thought stefan was different to all the other horrible men, always had him down as a gentleman. very disapointed. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 What a word removed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post StefanAVFC Posted June 9, 2015 VT Supporter Popular Post Share Posted June 9, 2015 Update: She wants to come and work and save money to go to private uni in Poland which will be the odd weekend in Lodz and online. I'm more than happy to be with her in England, I was just scared of having to support her but she's reassured me it won't happen. We're going to give it a try anyway 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 i must admit i always thought stefan was different to all the other horrible men, always had him down as a gentleman. very disapointed. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 Stef, does this mean you'll be able to take her up the Villa? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 Stef, does this mean you'll be able to take her up the wrong'un? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted June 9, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted June 9, 2015 Stef, does this mean you'll be able to take her up the Villa? She wants to go! She almost went with me to QPR but im glad she didn't Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 i must admit i always thought stefan was different to all the other horrible men, always had him down as a gentleman. very disapointed. fair play to ya, first one for a while.....git 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 Update: She wants to come and work and save money to go to private uni in Poland which will be the odd weekend in Lodz and online. I'm more than happy to be with her in England, I was just scared of having to support her but she's reassured me it won't happen. We're going to give it a try anyway she will be well at home in lichfield with that polish shop next to the high school. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted June 9, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted June 9, 2015 My old high school I bought many a polish beer there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wainy316 Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 Stef, does this mean you'll be able to take her up the Villa? She wants to go! She almost went with me to QPR but im glad she didn't Great game for a neutral that was. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted June 9, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted June 9, 2015 Not a great game for the over-zealous, holte-dweeling, passionate fan's girlfriend though 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 My old high school I bought many a polish beer there well tbf i didnt expect you went to netherstowe full of boneheads. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dAVe80 Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 Not a great game for the over-zealous, holte-dweeling, passionate fan's girlfriend though Yeah, taking your Mrs to football, or indeed just watching a match with her is not a good idea, unless she has more than a passing interest. Make sure she's aware, you will swear, get angry, act like a child, and generally become an unlovable monster for 90 mins. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 Missus dropped out of football a good few years ago which was a shame because she'd been quite a good luck charm. She was there for a few decent games, Ajax she helped find my shoe after I threw it in the air. Arsenal semi final she got snogged by most of the row behind us once they worked out we'd won on aggregate. Even Man Utd, you'll win nothing with kids she was there, complaining it was too sunny. Beating Man Utd., complaining it's too sunny. I appreciate there will be kids on here that haven't racked up enough years to have either of those experiences, but it did happen. Happily, the kids do come with me and quite enjoy watching comedy stressed out sweary football dad. They got on the pitch with their little ribbon flags after the Blackburn game. That suckered them into a life of misery. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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