Popular Post Xela Posted November 18, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted November 18, 2014 Got a date tonight for the first time in what feels like a long time, probably about 9 months! Only going for a couple of drinks to see how it goes but I can't help but feel well nervous about it! The idea of going out and having a few drinks with a stranger shouldn't bring on nerves, surely? After all, it's only a couple of drinks. Guess it's cos I don't "date" very often. PieFacE on his date later 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PieFacE Posted November 19, 2014 VT Supporter Share Posted November 19, 2014 (edited) haha, nah was surprisingly good. I really liked her and in terms of looks she was above my league, so I'll probably never see her again Though she did say she had a nice time and wanted to do it again so who knows. Fingers crossed hey! Edited November 19, 2014 by PieFacE 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wainy316 Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 Isn't the premise of dating funny. A series of trial runs to see if you want to bonk each other. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MakemineVanilla Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 Isn't the premise of dating funny. A series of trial runs to see if you want to bonk each other. Genetic, financial and psychological vetting? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wainy316 Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 In a nutshell, yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MakemineVanilla Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 In a nutshell, yes. Then comes the good behaviour phase, which gradually drifts into a short period of feeling comfortable together, and then comes the inevitable shit-testing; which if the relationship is sustained, will punctuate periods of mild contentment and comfortable banality. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post chrisp65 Posted November 19, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted November 19, 2014 no no no my missus is my bestest friend, she's the funniest person I know and has improved my outlook / my income / my cultural appreciation / my cooking skills etc then, after all that, she does sex things to me! what's not to love? if she broke tomorrow and I had to get rid, I'd go out and get the exact same model again 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Stevo985 Posted November 19, 2014 VT Supporter Popular Post Share Posted November 19, 2014 Yeah but women are women. That's a big problem for MMV. 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 I think maybe the loss of good christian teaching and values in this country has lead people to extremes of immediate self gratification with easy sex and fast food and cheap money just buying endless over salted and over sugared variations on sin dressed up as choice and modernity. But in the long run it's caused a deep, sustained and painful loss in that people's souls are empty, other than for the clogging residue of late night kebabs, xhamster and call of duty. Either that, or people just need to chill out a bit and enjoy the ride. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 Definitely enjoy the ride 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MakemineVanilla Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 (edited) Yeah but women are women. That's a big problem for MMV. The trouble is that your outrage at my so-called misogyny is too selective to be taken seriously. My criticisms of feminism are not attacks on individual women but only criticisms of the political manifestations of feminism, which even in today's Guardian, they dare to criticise. Yesterday, our very own Bronzed Goddess posted, about feeling upset after being dumped, which was followed by a vile sexist personal attack on her looks, which was totally out of order. So where were the white knights, then? They said absolutely nothing and let the blatant piece of nasty sexism stand unchallenged. My conclusion was that my critics who claim to be feminists, have absolutely no empathy with women at all, and that their claims that they do, cannot be taken seriously. When it comes to misogyny, I think you need to look closer to home. Edited November 19, 2014 by MakemineVanilla Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jon Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 I think maybe the loss of good christian teaching and values in this country has lead people to extremes of immediate self gratification with easy sex and fast food and cheap money just buying endless over salted and over sugared variations on sin dressed up as choice and modernity. But in the long run it's caused a deep, sustained and painful loss in that people's souls are empty, other than for the clogging residue of late night kebabs, xhamster and call of duty. Either that, or people just need to chill out a bit and enjoy the ride. Agree with a lot of that, other than the bold bit. Don't see what it's got to do with religion TBH. You can have 'good' values, morals etc without the need for religion to stick it's oar in, IMO. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 I think I put the three words 'christian', 'sin' and 'soul' in there deliberately, to wind up the infidels. But yeah, I do also more or less agree with it, in that we need to be taught respect, self control and consequences for our actions either by our relatives, society, or the state. But it's not an easy concept to get over in a short piece on a footy messageboard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villarule123 Posted November 19, 2014 VT Supporter Share Posted November 19, 2014 I'm seeing this polish girl now. By the official term (talking to her about it was like getting blood from a stone) But have you found out whether she has a schlong yet? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adw95 Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 Yeah but women are women. That's a big problem for MMV. The trouble is that your outrage at my so-called misogyny is too selective to be taken seriously. My criticisms of feminism are not attacks on individual women but only criticisms of the political manifestations of feminism, which even in today's Guardian, they dare to criticise. Yesterday, our very own Bronzed Goddess posted, about feeling upset after being dumped, which was followed by a vile sexist personal attack on her looks, which was totally out of order. So where were the white knights, then? They said absolutely nothing and let the blatant piece of nasty sexism stand unchallenged. My conclusion was that my critics who claim to be feminists, have absolutely no empathy with women at all, and that their claims that they do, cannot be taken seriously. When it comes to misogyny, I think you need to look closer to home. Why is it "so-called" misogyny? Who called you a misogynist in the last page? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowychap Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 Yesterday, our very own Bronzed Goddess posted, about feeling upset after being dumped, which was followed by a vile sexist personal attack on her looks, which was totally out of order. So where were the white knights, then?They're probably still searching for the (what I can only think is imaginary or deleted - as I can't find it) post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kurtsimonw Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 Was this the post in question? I can only imagine the whole "pick on something trivial, 2/10, would not bang" is a meme not to be taken seriously. Ironically, Baselayers was the only person to "like" this post. I may be wrong, but if this is the post, then it's quite bizarre outrage over nothing.Annoying West Country accent. 2/10. WOULD NOT BANG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted November 19, 2014 VT Supporter Share Posted November 19, 2014 (edited) Yeah but women are women. That's a big problem for MMV. The trouble is that your outrage at my so-called misogyny is too selective to be taken seriously. My criticisms of feminism are not attacks on individual women but only criticisms of the political manifestations of feminism, which even in today's Guardian, they dare to criticise. Yesterday, our very own Bronzed Goddess posted, about feeling upset after being dumped, which was followed by a vile sexist personal attack on her looks, which was totally out of order. So where were the white knights, then? They said absolutely nothing and let the blatant piece of nasty sexism stand unchallenged. My conclusion was that my critics who claim to be feminists, have absolutely no empathy with women at all, and that their claims that they do, cannot be taken seriously. When it comes to misogyny, I think you need to look closer to home. I'm not outraged. I was actually making a joke about your bizarre view of women. But if that makes you feel better, then go ahead Edited November 19, 2014 by Stevo985 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eames Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 Was this the post in question? I can only imagine the whole "pick on something trivial, 2/10, would not bang" is a meme not to be taken seriously. Ironically, Baselayers was the only person to "like" this post. I may be wrong, but if this is the post, then it's quite bizarre outrage over nothing. Annoying West Country accent. 2/10. WOULD NOT BANG No no.... I was being intentionally misogynistic. I hate all women particularly Baselayers whose like I took to be acceptance of her inferior status as the driver of a uterus. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrackpotForeigner Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 I think maybe the loss of good christian teaching and values in this country has lead people to extremes of immediate self gratification with easy sex and fast food and cheap money just buying endless over salted and over sugared variations on sin dressed up as choice and modernity. But in the long run it's caused a deep, sustained and painful loss in that people's souls are empty, other than for the clogging residue of late night kebabs, xhamster and call of duty. Either that, or people just need to chill out a bit and enjoy the ride. ...Or, unlike you, most people just haven't met anyone sufficiently compatible with their vile personality to make it worthwhile sticking around 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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