AVFC_Hitz Posted July 24, 2014 Share Posted July 24, 2014 Trying to get his legov-er? Fnarr fnarr Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legov Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 (edited) this makes you look like a dweeb because you're on here asking for help. Yeah, I admit it makes me look stupid....to you. She doesn't know I'm asking you guys for help, obviously, so me coming here begging all ya to give me advice and spiritual support has no bearing on her opinion of me. Anyway, if she doesn't reply within the next few days I'll send her another text closer to the date to confirm that she won't come. If she doesn't respond again, then I **** off, obviously. I have friends, whom I trust completely, who take forever to respond, and sometimes they forget to respond, period, and I think she might be similar in that respect. Also, don't think she's a "glued-to-my-phone-all-the-time" person at all - take that with a pinch of salt, obviously, given that I have only just gotten to know her. Edited July 25, 2014 by legov Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vive_La_Villa Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 Legov I just read your initial post. Why don't you just phone her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legov Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 Cos I just got to know her, and calling her would imply a sense of closeness we do not yet share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legov Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 (edited) Or it would be something different, surprising and delighting her. Either way you wouldn't be sat wondering any longer. I can finally use old man lingo now; back in my day we HAD to phone them up because most people didn't have mobiles. Terrifying yet so much more exciting. I don't know, I'm not "I-want-to-jump-your-bones-right-now" into her, I'm merely at the "you're interesting, let's get to know each other" stage. And I want my actions to reflect that. Calling her might make me seem like I'm taking things too fast - I'm trying to maintain a vibe that's not too romantic at this stage. Also, calling her and finding out that I've just interrupted her while she was in the middle of doing something isn't something I want. Edited July 25, 2014 by legov Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndyM3000 Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 Or it would be something different, surprising and delighting her. Either way you wouldn't be sat wondering any longer. I can finally use old man lingo now; back in my day we HAD to phone them up because most people didn't have mobiles. Terrifying yet so much more exciting. I don't know, I'm not "I-want-to-jump-your-bones-right-now" into her, I'm merely at the "you're interesting, let's get to know each other" stage. And I want my actions to reflect that. Calling her might make me seem like I'm taking things too fast - I'm trying to maintain a vibe that's not too romantic at this stage. Also, calling her and finding out that I've just interrupted her while she was in the middle of doing something isn't something I want. I think you should just text her that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legov Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 Or it would be something different, surprising and delighting her. Either way you wouldn't be sat wondering any longer. I can finally use old man lingo now; back in my day we HAD to phone them up because most people didn't have mobiles. Terrifying yet so much more exciting. I don't know, I'm not "I-want-to-jump-your-bones-right-now" into her, I'm merely at the "you're interesting, let's get to know each other" stage. And I want my actions to reflect that. Calling her might make me seem like I'm taking things too fast - I'm trying to maintain a vibe that's not too romantic at this stage. Also, calling her and finding out that I've just interrupted her while she was in the middle of doing something isn't something I want. I think you should just text her that Well, this was what I texted her (when she asked me why I had asked her if she was free) Go eat together or something. Cause I don't share lessons with you and I want to keep in contact with you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vive_La_Villa Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 (edited) You're reading in to things to much. You clearly like the girl and she said she is free next week right? A quick call shows your a man that doesn't mess around with texting. She probably won't even answer but will see you called. Bet you she will text or call back. If she don't you know for sure she's not interested. Then just ask what time and where to meet. Quick brief call. You don't have to fanny about with small talk. Just want to know what the sketch is. Take control man. Edited July 25, 2014 by Vive_La_Villa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GarethRDR Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 I don't know, I'm not "I-want-to-jump-your-bones-right-now" into her, I'm merely at the "you're interesting, let's get to know each other" stage. And I want my actions to reflect that. Calling her might make me seem like I'm taking things too fast - I'm trying to maintain a vibe that's not too romantic at this stage. Hmm, it does sound like you're moving too fast and I don't think it's right. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MakemineVanilla Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 (edited) Or it would be something different, surprising and delighting her. Either way you wouldn't be sat wondering any longer. I can finally use old man lingo now; back in my day we HAD to phone them up because most people didn't have mobiles. Terrifying yet so much more exciting. I don't know, I'm not "I-want-to-jump-your-bones-right-now" into her, I'm merely at the "you're interesting, let's get to know each other" stage. And I want my actions to reflect that. Calling her might make me seem like I'm taking things too fast - I'm trying to maintain a vibe that's not too romantic at this stage. Also, calling her and finding out that I've just interrupted her while she was in the middle of doing something isn't something I want. No, you are definitely over-thinking it. Here's the Seinfeld episode called The Opposite, where George did exactly the opposite to what instinct told him to do (lie), and it transforms his life. Although, to be honest, kissing-ass is probably the better strategy in life outside sitcoms. The opening to Dale Carnegie's famous How to Win Friends and Influence People, is one of the most insightful analyses into human vanity and narcissism you are ever likely to read, and it is hilarious because it is true. Edited July 25, 2014 by MakemineVanilla Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legov Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 She just replied, what the f Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Folski Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 She just replied, what the f Text her back in the next ten mins. It'll cut down the response wait anyway. What she say? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legov Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 She'll probably be free (at the time I specified) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vive_La_Villa Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 Women hey. Now text her a place and time and the date is set. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legov Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 Should I worry about the word "probably"? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GarethRDR Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 Context please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legov Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 (edited) Context please. She replied "I'm okay with it most prolly " That was her response, letter-for-letter. Edited July 25, 2014 by legov 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vive_La_Villa Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 Should I worry about the word "probably"? She has used it so she can back out if changes her mind. If that happens then forget about her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vive_La_Villa Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 Context please. She replied "I'm okay with it most prolly " That was her response, letter-for-letter. Prolly! Bloody kids these days. You got a smilie face so don't worry about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Folski Posted July 25, 2014 Share Posted July 25, 2014 She sounds kind of painful legov. Why can't she just say ya dinner or if something does come up we can go a different night. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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