chrisp65 Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 The main upside of your parents getting divorced is having two possible destinations to take a slut to and DHUTWU. I hope your girlfriend doesn't read this forum, Boy unfortunately, I was from a boringly stable family background with the added complication of a small house and a dad that worked odd shifts, I had to get a job so I could buy a Morris Marina cassette player masses of space vinyl seats I went from zero to sex hero in approximately 3 days when I bought that car 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eames Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 The main upside of your parents getting divorced is having two possible destinations to take a slut to and DHUTWU. I hope your girlfriend doesn't read this forum, Boy unfortunately, I was from a boringly stable family background with the added complication of a small house and a dad that worked odd shifts, I had to get a job so I could buy a Morris Marina cassette player masses of space vinyl seats I went from zero to sex hero in approximately 3 days when I bought that car I concur. The most popular girl at school was the one with the Volvo estate as her first car. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adw95 Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 The main upside of your parents getting divorced is having two possible destinations to take a slut to and DHUTWU. I hope your girlfriend doesn't read this forum, Boy I could say the same to you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 The main upside of your parents getting divorced is having two possible destinations to take a slut to and DHUTWU. I hope your girlfriend doesn't read this forum, Boy I could say the same to you! She's got an account on VT, I have nothing to hide 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ME Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 Alex, for shame! 10 cool points for Rob have been awarded. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adw95 Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 Alex, for shame! 10 cool points for Rob have been awarded. Don't pretend to be surprised! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevangrealish Posted March 18, 2014 Share Posted March 18, 2014 I'm back at my mums tonight. DHUTWU Didnt know whether to laugh or cry. Wrong on so many levels LOOL :/ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GeorgeVilla82 Posted March 18, 2014 VT Supporter Share Posted March 18, 2014 So, the cheating boyfriend has decided that he's made a mistake and wants to try to make it work. Probably stupidly, I agreed to this (rather than throw away a 15 year relationship) but he's now just slipped back in to the same behaviour as before. We're spending loads more time together and it's pretty fun, but he's still not in a place to commit. He says he needsmore time. I should walk away, shouldn't I? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rodders Posted March 18, 2014 Share Posted March 18, 2014 (edited) I think you know the answer to that one already George. Sorry This guy. Is asking you for more time. The one who did the cheating. Is making any sort of your request of you in order to get the relationship back on tract. Seriously - he's taking the **** piss. I mean, I know it's always easier giving advice on the outside looking in, but think of your medium / longer future, not just the immediate solace / comfort of now. Can you see him being a part of your life? Do you want to do that? Can you believe you can trust him sufficiently to make it work? I hope whatever you decide works out for you, and having not had a relationship that long by any means, it's harder for me to imagine wanting to throw that away, but what do you want from Life? Edited March 18, 2014 by Rodders Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baselayers Posted March 18, 2014 Share Posted March 18, 2014 So, the cheating boyfriend has decided that he's made a mistake and wants to try to make it work. Probably stupidly, I agreed to this (rather than throw away a 15 year relationship) but he's now just slipped back in to the same behaviour as before. We're spending loads more time together and it's pretty fun, but he's still not in a place to commit. He says he needsmore time. I should walk away, shouldn't I? More time after 15 years? Really? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leemond2008 Posted March 18, 2014 Share Posted March 18, 2014 3 girls A- **** love the girl but things are **** up and in order for us to get together would involve **** up a lot of people, I have purposely kept my distance from her but just lately she has been trying to worm her way back in and although I know I should stay away I don't know if I'll be able to B- we get on **** great but I don't find her attractive, yeah we are a good match but I just don't think of her in that way, she is officially in the friend zone (has a male ever put a female in the friend zone bracket before) C- really like the girl and we have a lot in common and have a great laugh and get on famously but for some reason I can't make the move its like I **** freeze whenever the chance comes up and then I have to wait weeks for it to arise again and I freeze again the easy option would be choice B but that wouldn't be fair on her the ideal option would be C but for some reason I cant get there and A is a **** mine field that you wouldn't be able to comprehend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted March 18, 2014 Share Posted March 18, 2014 d - stay single. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leemond2008 Posted March 18, 2014 Share Posted March 18, 2014 d - stay single. yup that is pretty much the option I have took for a good long time because its the easiest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dAVe80 Posted March 18, 2014 Share Posted March 18, 2014 (edited) Edit: In reply to Geroge Are you just agreeing to keep this going, because it's just easier than a complete split? From what I've read (apologies if I'm over stepping the mark), it seems that may be part of the issue. From an outsiders view, there seems an obvious thing to do. I fully appreciate there is a level of security involved in a relationship, and there are problems beyond the heartache of splitting up (sorting out who lives where, who gets what, who pays the bills etc), but if he's cheated and can't even give you commitment after 15 years then it's time to let it go and move on with your life. Easier said than done, but I'm sure you can do it. Edited March 18, 2014 by dAVe80 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rovers13 Posted March 19, 2014 Share Posted March 19, 2014 3 girls A- **** love the girl but things are **** up and in order for us to get together would involve **** up a lot of people, I have purposely kept my distance from her but just lately she has been trying to worm her way back in and although I know I should stay away I don't know if I'll be able to B- we get on **** great but I don't find her attractive, yeah we are a good match but I just don't think of her in that way, she is officially in the friend zone (has a male ever put a female in the friend zone bracket before) C- really like the girl and we have a lot in common and have a great laugh and get on famously but for some reason I can't make the move its like I **** freeze whenever the chance comes up and then I have to wait weeks for it to arise again and I freeze again the easy option would be choice B but that wouldn't be fair on her the ideal option would be C but for some reason I cant get there and A is a **** mine field that you wouldn't be able to comprehend All 3. At once. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted March 19, 2014 VT Supporter Share Posted March 19, 2014 So, the cheating boyfriend has decided that he's made a mistake and wants to try to make it work. Probably stupidly, I agreed to this (rather than throw away a 15 year relationship) but he's now just slipped back in to the same behaviour as before. We're spending loads more time together and it's pretty fun, but he's still not in a place to commit. He says he needsmore time. I should walk away, shouldn't I? He cheated on you, a lot. You've taken him back, so he's gotten away with it. He's cheated, and now has exactly what he had before. Although he's now got it with no commitment, which is probably a bonus for him. So what part of this makes you think he'll change? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted March 19, 2014 Share Posted March 19, 2014 He won't change. Even if he does commit to you his heart won't be fully in it, I think we all know what happens when someone's heart aint fully in it. Cut your losses and make a clean break. I'm in a similiar relationship. I'm struggling to commit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted March 19, 2014 Share Posted March 19, 2014 So, the cheating boyfriend has decided that he's made a mistake and wants to try to make it work. Probably stupidly, I agreed to this (rather than throw away a 15 year relationship) but he's now just slipped back in to the same behaviour as before. We're spending loads more time together and it's pretty fun, but he's still not in a place to commit. He says he needsmore time. I should walk away, shouldn't I? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted March 19, 2014 Share Posted March 19, 2014 George, Complete break, walk away, it is over over. Or put up with it, carry on bobbing along, accept the scumbag as he is and just post phunnay pictures when you visit VT. It really isn't anymore complicated than that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Folski Posted March 19, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted March 19, 2014 3 girls A- **** love the girl but things are **** up and in order for us to get together would involve **** up a lot of people, I have purposely kept my distance from her but just lately she has been trying to worm her way back in and although I know I should stay away I don't know if I'll be able to B- we get on **** great but I don't find her attractive, yeah we are a good match but I just don't think of her in that way, she is officially in the friend zone (has a male ever put a female in the friend zone bracket before) C- really like the girl and we have a lot in common and have a great laugh and get on famously but for some reason I can't make the move its like I **** freeze whenever the chance comes up and then I have to wait weeks for it to arise again and I freeze again the easy option would be choice B but that wouldn't be fair on her the ideal option would be C but for some reason I cant get there and A is a **** mine field that you wouldn't be able to comprehend Here's what I gather from this, Leemond will be texting girl C and things will be going very well, but he'll end up out some night that girl C won't be out and he'll be in the mood to not go off with any girl. However, he'll bump into girl A, despite having a few drinks he won't be drunk, girl A will corner him and although he won't want to do anything she'll give him that look that no man can walk away from & he'll venture outside with her, only to have her friends come over and she'll tell him she's going home with them. Then a day or two later, he'll be thinking he's so sick of girls messing with him and he'll go all out to end up in a relationship with girl C who knows nothing about the other night with girl A. He'll call round to hers and things will be getting hot and steamy but poor old Leemond will still be like a "freezer" and poor girl C will think Leemond is not attracted to her. He'll then hit the nearest bar possible, and get very drunk, he'll bump into poor girl B at some stage and will take full advantage of their friendship to erase and niggling doubts he had over his penial problems, thus forever ruining their friendship. Finally he'll come on her talking about how he wants to volley them all in the jaw. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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