Ginko Posted November 26, 2013 Share Posted November 26, 2013 (edited) Because of the anal probing? Edit - Damn page breaks. Edited November 26, 2013 by Ginko Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8pints Posted November 26, 2013 Share Posted November 26, 2013 You'd prefer a bad, selfish alien? Yes, especially the latter. That's 91's domain 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted November 26, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted November 26, 2013 It's the word 'allowed' that winds me up...not you personally Donnie, but the scenario. You shouldn't have to be allowed to go away with your mates... you should just do it. I don't mean spend all your holidays with your mates but one weekend / week a year isn't too much to ask is it? Especially if you spent 2 or 3 holidays with the missus. If I ever got in a relationship and the other half wouldn't allow me to go away then she'd be **** off. The attitude is just spiteful. What she is saying is that she doesn't trust you! Past relationships of mine have always had that give and take, where we both spend time together on holiday but we have our own time away with our mates. You need your time with the lads. Sorry for the passion but seen too many mates of mine have their balls removed by their overbearing other halves. Very much this. If I was ever told I wasn't "allowed" to go on a weekend away with my mates then she can **** off. I know it's easier said than done when you're not in that situation, but seriously. Man up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrackpotForeigner Posted November 26, 2013 Share Posted November 26, 2013 It's the word 'allowed' that winds me up...not you personally Donnie, but the scenario. You shouldn't have to be allowed to go away with your mates... you should just do it. I don't mean spend all your holidays with your mates but one weekend / week a year isn't too much to ask is it? Especially if you spent 2 or 3 holidays with the missus. If I ever got in a relationship and the other half wouldn't allow me to go away then she'd be **** off. The attitude is just spiteful. What she is saying is that she doesn't trust you! Past relationships of mine have always had that give and take, where we both spend time together on holiday but we have our own time away with our mates. You need your time with the lads. Sorry for the passion but seen too many mates of mine have their balls removed by their overbearing other halves. Very much this. If I was ever told I wasn't "allowed" to go on a weekend away with my mates then she can **** off. I know it's easier said than done when you're not in that situation, but seriously. Man up. It's not as simple as that. Being "allowed" or "not allowed" by your woman (or, um, chap, if you like them better) is just about whether the cost in brownie points is worth it or not. Obviously you're "allowed" to do pretty much anything, but some things require a level of compensation that makes them not worthwhile. Examples: Watching the mighty Villa play a game of football: Cost in brownie points: Perhaps a peck on the cheek. Conclusion: Allowed. Shagging her sister: Cost in brownie points: Probably a new car, a two week holiday in Paris and a 300 carat diamond necklace. Conclusion: Not Allowed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morley_crosses_to_Withe Posted November 26, 2013 Share Posted November 26, 2013 A holiday with some mates should cost a trip (or two) away with her in brownie points. It should be 'allowed'. If my missus insisted we go on every holiday we ever have together then I'd simply tell her to **** off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted November 26, 2013 Share Posted November 26, 2013 Its about give and take isn't it. i know its not just women that don't allow their men away, it can be the other around and that is as equally wrong. Relationships are based on trust and men and women need to spent time with their mates as well as each other. That's the way to have a healthy relationship. I've got mates who I barely see now, because their missus' don't like the rest of their mates. Then again, i'm sure some men actually like being under the thumb.. a mother substitute if you will, telling them what to do, what to eat, etc. Yep, I am single! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted November 26, 2013 Share Posted November 26, 2013 Its about give and take isn't it. I'm glad someone else enjoys a bit of Postma. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted November 27, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted November 27, 2013 It's about trust. And like I've said before, you should trust your gf. If you don't then what the **** are you doing with her? Let her go out with her mates, let her go on holiday. If she cheats on you then that's her problem, dump her. Of course a relationship is about compromise. But if your gf tells you you're not "allowed" to go on holiday, then she's a bitch. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BOF Posted November 27, 2013 Moderator Share Posted November 27, 2013 It's about trust.And like I've said before, you should trust your gf. If you don't then what the **** are you doing with her? Let her go out with her mates, let her go on holiday. If she cheats on you then that's her problem, dump her. Of course a relationship is about compromise. But if your gf tells you you're not "allowed" to go on holiday, then she's a bitch.Hear hear hear hear hear hear hear hear. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8pints Posted November 27, 2013 Share Posted November 27, 2013 (edited) It's about trust. And like I've said before, you should trust your gf. If you don't then what the **** are you doing with her? Let her go out with her mates, let her go on holiday. If she cheats on you then that's her problem, dump her. Of course a relationship is about compromise. But if your gf tells you you're not "allowed" to go on holiday, then she's a bitch. Hear hear hear hear hear hear hear hear. Mythboffers are back with their second series 'Bitchboffers'. Where they help you find out whether your girl is a keeper or mistreater. Edited December 1, 2013 by 8pints Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wainy316 Posted November 27, 2013 Share Posted November 27, 2013 If I wanna go to the strip club then goddamit I'll go to strip club! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ME Posted November 27, 2013 Share Posted November 27, 2013 It's about trust. And like I've said before, you should trust your gf. If you don't then what the **** are you doing with her? Let her go out with her mates, let her go on holiday. If she cheats on you then that's her problem, dump her. Of course a relationship is about compromise. But if your gf tells you you're not "allowed" to go on holiday, then she's a bitch. Hear hear hear hear hear hear hear hear. If it's just a trust issue and she says this, then get rid of her. No one should ever tell you you can't do something just because they are insecure. If she had pre planned with you and you want to change it last minute.......good luck to you. For instance: If you wanted to go away for a stag weekend to Spain that was affordable with your closest friends, then yes. Of course. You should go and no woman should have a problem with it. If you wanted to go to V-fest and your lady was already planning a big trip with you and couldn't afford it if you went to V-fest, then no. It would not be a good idea for you to go unless you were planning on finding a new lady. (Hopefully that example doesn't come across as bitchy, but if you chose something like that over your woman, then you become the bitch.) I am usually a fan of finding things you both enjoy and can even include your friends on. But I know not everyone likes that. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LondonLax Posted November 27, 2013 Share Posted November 27, 2013 It's just about having some respect for each other. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leviramsey Posted November 28, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted November 28, 2013 So there may be a confrontation with my girlfriend's ex (well not yet, legally) wife.This stuff is complicated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hogso Posted November 28, 2013 Share Posted November 28, 2013 Your girlfriend had a wife? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Stevo985 Posted November 28, 2013 VT Supporter Popular Post Share Posted November 28, 2013 You're like Ross Geller's evil twin. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post chrisp65 Posted November 28, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted November 28, 2013 yeah I think it's been phrased that way before levi is the lesbo turner of myth and legens it is said in legend, that somewhere in americacaca, in the woody bit that's a bit like Britain if you squint, there is a man so virile that ladies that love ladies cannot resist and are turned back to the right path 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ME Posted November 28, 2013 Share Posted November 28, 2013 So there may be a confrontation with my girlfriend's ex (well not yet, legally) wife. This stuff is complicated. Any more to this story? Or do you just enjoy building the suspense? Please keep us update. Happy turkey day. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adw95 Posted November 28, 2013 Share Posted November 28, 2013 I am usually a fan of finding things you both enjoy and can even include your friends on. But I know not everyone likes that. I like this idea too, but I only have one close friend and my girlfriend hates her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ME Posted November 28, 2013 Share Posted November 28, 2013 I am usually a fan of finding things you both enjoy and can even include your friends on. But I know not everyone likes that. I like this idea too, but I only have one close friend and my girlfriend hates her My closest guy friend has a new lady who doesn't care for me. I am trying to win her over though. You have to find common ground and as the dude encourage them both to try….for your sake. The chick and I have golden girls and comic books. Thats it. She loves all the sports teams I hate, she's a model, she likes expensive purses and shoes. But she makes him happy, so I'm trying. Why only one close friend? Do you like her friends? Branch out mister. Just a little bit anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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