CVByrne Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 Went to London with my lady over the weekend, got engaged (properly, it was kind of unofficial before) Pretty awesome and quite exciting. Been a massive 12 months for me. Congrats man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 R.I.P dodgyknees 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 nice one dodgy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted August 15, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted August 15, 2013 I've never really typed this all down or discussed the whole story with anybody so bear with me. I just saw a picture on FB which reminded me of everything. (tl;dr potential) Last summer I stayed with my old supervisor (middle aged woman) from work in New York. We went to her friends house who had kids and specifically this daughter. For the most of the night, she wasn't in and I didn't really know what to expect. I was constantly being told how gorgeous she was by my friend but women always say their friends are gorgeous so I never base any opinion on that. I was literaly just about to go to bed, when I got talking to her mum about some subject and the mum said 'Oh Mary knows all about that'. So I went downstairs and literally went straight in with 'so I heard you're into blah blah'. 5 hours later after talking about absolutely everything including loads of personal stuff, we called it a night. Next day, she asked me if I wanted to have a tour around her town and grab some lunch. So we went around and grabbed lunch and just talked and talked. No silences etc. My friend had to go home but I was having such a good time that I said I'd meet her back at hers. We ended up walking back through a beach when we found some piece of plastic in the beach so we went back to the house to get boots and shovels and stuff. We were literally like two 10 year olds; digging up pointless stuff from the beach and saying they were 'alien eggs' (as an example) and constantly pushing and shoving each other. Anyway she has to drop me off at the train station so I can get back and as I'm buying my ticket, she randomly nudges me and smiles and says 'look there's a heart on that wall' (bit of graffiti) 'isn't that funny'. I was just like, 'yeah, that's cool' and I went still laughing and giggling at each other. That day felt what it was like when you were about 10 and you just acted all coy and giggly with each other, and really nothing I've ever had before. We make plans to meet in New York when I'm back in a few days, but I never specified if it was just us and as a group. So we met up and she brought friends, but I didn't judge that because we didn't make it clear what it was going to be like and we just bickered all night so I ended up hitting on her friend and making a bit of a tit of myself. We went back to her friend's and smoked some questionable substances and we were just different in a group. We moved on again and I went to work 6 hours away for 8 weeks, I messaged her saying I'd love to see her at the end of the summer. She replied eagerly with 'yes please' and we said we'd sort it closer to the time. Then suddenly she disappeared off the face of the planet. Didn't respond to messages and I flew home. I then messaged her out of the blue in Feb and said I was planning on coming over and she said 'That's excellent! How exciting. Well gets some funds in order boy, and come stateside...your message indicated you need a break from home, everything okay?' then she dropped off the face of the planet again. I'm not really looking for advice, I just needed to write this down and ask for some thoughts on the whole situation. Should I message her again in the future? (going to the states next summer). She's got an crazy job and she's probably the most beautiful girl I've ever met. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meath_Villan Posted August 15, 2013 Share Posted August 15, 2013 smash her back doors in 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted August 15, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted August 15, 2013 I have no idea if she'd like her. Still don't Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted August 15, 2013 Share Posted August 15, 2013 you do realise it's a bloke don't you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted August 15, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted August 15, 2013 She's definitely not Should have realised VT isn't the best place to pour my heart out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AVFCforever1991 Posted August 15, 2013 Share Posted August 15, 2013 I've never really typed this all down or discussed the whole story with anybody so bear with me. I just saw a picture on FB which reminded me of everything. (tl;dr potential) Last summer I stayed with my old supervisor (middle aged woman) from work in New York. We went to her friends house who had kids and specifically this daughter. For the most of the night, she wasn't in and I didn't really know what to expect. I was constantly being told how gorgeous she was by my friend but women always say their friends are gorgeous so I never base any opinion on that. I was literaly just about to go to bed, when I got talking to her mum about some subject and the mum said 'Oh Mary knows all about that'. So I went downstairs and literally went straight in with 'so I heard you're into blah blah'. 5 hours later after talking about absolutely everything including loads of personal stuff, we called it a night. Next day, she asked me if I wanted to have a tour around her town and grab some lunch. So we went around and grabbed lunch and just talked and talked. No silences etc. My friend had to go home but I was having such a good time that I said I'd meet her back at hers. We ended up walking back through a beach when we found some piece of plastic in the beach so we went back to the house to get boots and shovels and stuff. We were literally like two 10 year olds; digging up pointless stuff from the beach and saying they were 'alien eggs' (as an example) and constantly pushing and shoving each other. Anyway she has to drop me off at the train station so I can get back and as I'm buying my ticket, she randomly nudges me and smiles and says 'look there's a heart on that wall' (bit of graffiti) 'isn't that funny'. I was just like, 'yeah, that's cool' and I went still laughing and giggling at each other. That day felt what it was like when you were about 10 and you just acted all coy and giggly with each other, and really nothing I've ever had before. We make plans to meet in New York when I'm back in a few days, but I never specified if it was just us and as a group. So we met up and she brought friends, but I didn't judge that because we didn't make it clear what it was going to be like and we just bickered all night so I ended up hitting on her friend and making a bit of a tit of myself. We went back to her friend's and smoked some questionable substances and we were just different in a group. We moved on again and I went to work 6 hours away for 8 weeks, I messaged her saying I'd love to see her at the end of the summer. She replied eagerly with 'yes please' and we said we'd sort it closer to the time. Then suddenly she disappeared off the face of the planet. Didn't respond to messages and I flew home. I then messaged her out of the blue in Feb and said I was planning on coming over and she said 'That's excellent! How exciting. Well gets some funds in order boy, and come stateside...your message indicated you need a break from home, everything okay?' then she dropped off the face of the planet again. I'm not really looking for advice, I just needed to write this down and ask for some thoughts on the whole situation. Should I message her again in the future? (going to the states next summer). She's got an crazy job and she's probably the most beautiful girl I've ever met. That a euphemism? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meath_Villan Posted August 15, 2013 Share Posted August 15, 2013 Its your duty ....to attack that booty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted August 15, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted August 15, 2013 I know, but that isn't possible right now is it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Folski Posted August 15, 2013 Share Posted August 15, 2013 smash her back doors in Its your duty ....to attack that booty As I said in the gym thread Meath Villan... Giggity Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legov Posted August 16, 2013 Share Posted August 16, 2013 (edited) We moved on again and I went to work 6 hours away for 8 weeks, I messaged her saying I'd love to see her at the end of the summer. She replied eagerly with 'yes please' and we said we'd sort it closer to the time. Then suddenly she disappeared off the face of the planet. Didn't respond to messages and I flew home. I then messaged her out of the blue in Feb and said I was planning on coming over and she said 'That's excellent! How exciting. Well gets some funds in order boy, and come stateside...your message indicated you need a break from home, everything okay?' then she dropped off the face of the planet again. Girls! Warm and flirty one day and "friends" the next. Does my head in. :bang: :bang: :bang: :bang: Edited August 16, 2013 by legov 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David-Copenhagen Posted August 16, 2013 Share Posted August 16, 2013 You have to play the game, but not for sooooo long. Avoid the friend route, don't play any more games and take a chance. If she does not respond the way you would like, then let her go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legov Posted August 16, 2013 Share Posted August 16, 2013 (edited) Nah, I don't intend to take the friend route, but every once in a while she'll do something that makes me doubt if she has any interest. Edit: Oh look, I've stumbled into the Relationship Thread Edited August 16, 2013 by legov 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndyM3000 Posted August 16, 2013 Share Posted August 16, 2013 There's plenty of other fit birds in NY that will be attracted to your British charm, play the field. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted August 16, 2013 Share Posted August 16, 2013 DHUTWU Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted August 16, 2013 Share Posted August 16, 2013 Grow a pair and tell her you want to suck on her big toe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AVFCforever1991 Posted August 16, 2013 Share Posted August 16, 2013 ^ This guy knows... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted August 16, 2013 Share Posted August 16, 2013 You have to play the game, This, women are turned off once they know they have hooked a bloke. They need to feel like they have turned your head and 'won'. Thats why as soon as you get 'close' with someone they know they are all keen again. Its very much a game of tactics in the early days. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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