adw95 Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 My boss again, I could do with some advice. (This is one of three jobs, I work 15 hours p/w) you might have read the issues from before, which is what number 2 relates to 1) Apparently I have technical issues, my phone always breaks (my Samsung did, I got a replacement, but apparently every single phone is broken) my laptop is broken (this is the one I am on at the moment) and I have "technical" issues. Right. (As he sits there moaning because he cannot get on the internet and then begs to use my phone as a connection... yeah) 2) The rain issue last week, his comment on that "There is something wrong with you, we have had a heatwave all week" - erm.. yeah. 3) Apparently I am supposed to be available and must answer to him 24/7... "I tried ringing you at 1 in the morning, it was important, but don't worry..." He is constantly saying "there is something wrong with you."!!! I went to a funeral a few weeks back, his comment was "Any more funerals coming up?" and of course, him ringing me when on holiday!!!! I need some advice, I am quite a nice person (I come across as a prat on here, I'm just good at posting too quickly sometimes!) but I genuinely do not want to snap back so I need advice? DHUTWU The guy is a 66 year old Spurs fan, I'll let you do it. Well my next idea was to call him a word removed. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drat01 Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 Seriously you need that and try and keep any "evidence" like phone records etc It sounds shitty but trust me even with this shit hole Gvmt removing workers rights, you will have enough to evidence to bring a case against them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shillzz Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 My boss again, I could do with some advice. (This is one of three jobs, I work 15 hours p/w) you might have read the issues from before, which is what number 2 relates to 1) Apparently I have technical issues, my phone always breaks (my Samsung did, I got a replacement, but apparently every single phone is broken) my laptop is broken (this is the one I am on at the moment) and I have "technical" issues. Right. (As he sits there moaning because he cannot get on the internet and then begs to use my phone as a connection... yeah)2) The rain issue last week, his comment on that "There is something wrong with you, we have had a heatwave all week" - erm.. yeah.3) Apparently I am supposed to be available and must answer to him 24/7... "I tried ringing you at 1 in the morning, it was important, but don't worry..." He is constantly saying "there is something wrong with you."!!! I went to a funeral a few weeks back, his comment was "Any more funerals coming up?" and of course, him ringing me when on holiday!!!! I need some advice, I am quite a nice person (I come across as a prat on here, I'm just good at posting too quickly sometimes!) but I genuinely do not want to snap back so I need advice? DHUTWU Certainly a good option, should always be the first port of call. Alternatively, if it's only a 15 hours a week job, and you have others, then you should be able to hold some authority over the matter. It doesn't sound like this is the kind of irreplaceable job that you can't afford to lose. If you can afford to lose the job, or are atleast optimistic about getting a suitable replacement, then tell your boss about your concerns. Perhaps even drop an ultimatum into the equation. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted October 29, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted October 29, 2013 My boss again, I could do with some advice. (This is one of three jobs, I work 15 hours p/w) you might have read the issues from before, which is what number 2 relates to 1) Apparently I have technical issues, my phone always breaks (my Samsung did, I got a replacement, but apparently every single phone is broken) my laptop is broken (this is the one I am on at the moment) and I have "technical" issues. Right. (As he sits there moaning because he cannot get on the internet and then begs to use my phone as a connection... yeah)2) The rain issue last week, his comment on that "There is something wrong with you, we have had a heatwave all week" - erm.. yeah.3) Apparently I am supposed to be available and must answer to him 24/7... "I tried ringing you at 1 in the morning, it was important, but don't worry..." He is constantly saying "there is something wrong with you."!!! I went to a funeral a few weeks back, his comment was "Any more funerals coming up?" and of course, him ringing me when on holiday!!!! I need some advice, I am quite a nice person (I come across as a prat on here, I'm just good at posting too quickly sometimes!) but I genuinely do not want to snap back so I need advice? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VpS74BKoOmg Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 Cheers Drat! I'll keep it all Just wish I could do more writing for the local paper, absolutely love doing temp work for them and so much better than the other jobs I do (including this one above!). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 My boss again, I could do with some advice. (This is one of three jobs, I work 15 hours p/w) you might have read the issues from before, which is what number 2 relates to 1) Apparently I have technical issues, my phone always breaks (my Samsung did, I got a replacement, but apparently every single phone is broken) my laptop is broken (this is the one I am on at the moment) and I have "technical" issues. Right. (As he sits there moaning because he cannot get on the internet and then begs to use my phone as a connection... yeah) 2) The rain issue last week, his comment on that "There is something wrong with you, we have had a heatwave all week" - erm.. yeah. 3) Apparently I am supposed to be available and must answer to him 24/7... "I tried ringing you at 1 in the morning, it was important, but don't worry..." He is constantly saying "there is something wrong with you."!!! I went to a funeral a few weeks back, his comment was "Any more funerals coming up?" and of course, him ringing me when on holiday!!!! I need some advice, I am quite a nice person (I come across as a prat on here, I'm just good at posting too quickly sometimes!) but I genuinely do not want to snap back so I need advice? DHUTWU Certainly a good option, should always be the first port of call. Alternatively, if it's only a 15 hours a week job, and you have others, then you should be able to hold some authority over the matter. It doesn't sound like this is the kind of irreplaceable job that you can't afford to lose. If you can afford to lose the job, or are atleast optimistic about getting a suitable replacement, then tell your boss about your concerns. Perhaps even drop an ultimatum into the equation. The problem the missus and I have is that the IW is bloody expensive to live on (ok, everywhere is expensive, but just getting off this place costs £30 for a day ticket) we are trying to save for a better place so we can have a family (Aston for a boy, bang on!) and so I am working as hard as I can and doing as much as I can. One of the other jobs is not regular, but is a good income (actually, can we include Mystery shopping? if so, 4 jobs!) meh, maybe this explains why I am so bloody grumpy too I'm looking at applying for the BBCJTS scheme and getting to the mainland... closer to VP.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shillzz Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 Doesn't sound like there are any easy answers dude. If it was me, which it isn't, but if it was I'd be spending my time pleading for more work at the paper and applying for other jobs. Your boss sounds like a grade A pancake flipper and it appears like he's causing you more stress than it's worth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drat01 Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 Doesn't sound like there are any easy answers dude. If it was me, which it isn't, but if it was I'd be spending my time pleading for more work at the paper and applying for other jobs. Your boss sounds like a grade A pancake flipper and it appears like he's causing you more stress than it's worth. You could console yourself with the thought that at 66 he isn't going to be working for much longer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BOF Posted October 29, 2013 Moderator Share Posted October 29, 2013 Seriously you need that and try and keep any "evidence" like phone records etc It sounds shitty but trust me even with this shit hole Gvmt removing workers rights, you will have enough to evidence to bring a case against them. Thissety this this. Assuming your boss is just making stuff up regarding things like broken phones, time off, being available 24/7* etc. it becomes his word against yours when it comes to a head at some point in the future. Having a timeline is essential not only as evidence but because you won't be able to call stuff off the top of your head in any kind of confrontation when it happens. Put it this way, it's best to have it and not need it, than need it and not have it. If your boss is enough of a dickhead to be doing what he's doing then he's enough of a dickhead to make future employment for you more difficult in terms of giving references and recommendations. * your contract should clear that one up easy enough. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 (edited) Just realised dating sites are like shopping... for people. Edited October 29, 2013 by CarewsEyebrowDesigner Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villaajax Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 Just realised dating sites are like shopping... for people. I hope Scuba Steve kept his receipt. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Morpheus Posted October 29, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted October 29, 2013 Just caught my fiancee surfing VT. Thank **** she hasn't seen Off Topic yet. 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villaajax Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 Just caught my fiancee surfing VT. Thank **** she hasn't seen Off Topic yet. Brown pants time. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Popular Post CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted October 29, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted October 29, 2013 I imagine Morpheus sitting there, looking over his fiance's shoulder, sweating profusely, while the Jaws theme plays in the background as she clicks off topic and scrolls down the page... 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villaajax Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 So who's getting the popcorn? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morpheus Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 Think i got away with it but she's looking Santa to bring her an iPad and i'm just not going to be able to afford it now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted October 29, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted October 29, 2013 I just read through the confession thread again. The moral dilemma is awful. Which is worse? Having regular sex with a blood relative or cheating on your partner for 10 years? I'm genuinely stumped. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meath_Villan Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 Just caught my fiancee surfing VT. Thank **** she hasn't seen Off Topic yet. Did she not check your internet history ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villaajax Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 I imagine Morpheus sitting there, looking over his fiance's shoulder, sweating profusely, while the Jaws theme plays in the background as she clicks off topic and scrolls down the page... Just as she clicks on the confessions thread, hammer meets skull. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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