well, not sure if it's supposed to cheer you up, but I went to a really good funeral today!
the old bugger was in his 80's and had lived a great old life, grew up in Jamaica, blagged his way into the forces under age, fought in the war, moved to the UK, was good and respected at cricket and tennis and boxing, 2 wives, 5 kids. Bit of gospel singing from a choir, couple of good speeches and all up the golf club for a session with everyone taking the mickey out of each other and having a good giggle and too much to drink
good sign off imo