If you look at the modern history of the West versus majority Muslim countries, the West wins the title of aggressor hands down. France's North African colonialist oppression, Britain and France meddling in Lebanon, Syria, and Jordan etc., drawing arbitrary borders, creating the state of Israel, supporting the repressive Saudi royals. The USA meddling in Iran and Iraq, overthrowing X and installing Y, and becoming Israel's sugar daddy. There is a reason why they hate us, and it's really not about our "freedoms", it's about us supporting repressive regimes and intentionally keeping the whole area underdeveloped.
This is not to excuse the atrocities they commit, usually in the name of their god, but there is a reason they're not mad at Mexico or Finland.
There is a civil war going on in the Muslim world, and even if we extracted ourselves in every way from their world, they'd still be at each other's throats. But we make ourselves a very convenient target for their anger and frustration as along as we keep poking their hornets nest. And then we wonder why we got stung.