I was 17 then, and Ruge is right, I was a full on headbanger at that point. What's funny is that as I got older, my hair got much shorter, and as my dad aged, he grew his out (what was left of it, anyway) The old family photo is interesting because the guy taking the photograph was my grandfather, who was despised by all of them, and who beat my father the worst. So you can see in my dad's eyes almost a taunting look, like "I'm getting older now, you bastard". And you can see how my grandmother is looking at my dad kind of concerned like.